Wink from Heaven: Think Caleb liked PT today?

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Think Caleb liked PT today?

I'll let you be the judge...

But if you're asking me, I'd have to say...

YES!!

17 comments:

Tara Bennett said...: Oh pure happiness in his sweet face! I'm so glad he's able to enjoy things so much -- he deserves it!!!; December 16, 2010 at 1:41 PM
Brad and Hailey said...: So cute!; December 16, 2010 at 1:49 PM
The VW's said...: So Cute! Great job Caleb! Hugs!!!; December 16, 2010 at 2:23 PM
Meredith said...: What a happy smile!; December 16, 2010 at 3:11 PM
Rebecca Jackson said...: That last smile is priceless!; December 16, 2010 at 5:11 PM
Lacey said...: Oh how cute! I've never seen him smile before!!; December 16, 2010 at 5:59 PM
Colleen said...: Adorable!! I just love his sweet smile!; December 16, 2010 at 6:00 PM
The Kings said...: oh he is soooooo cute!!! I want to give him a big smooch.; December 16, 2010 at 8:01 PM
Mommy K said...: I am interested in the swing you mentioned...do you know where it is from or have a picture?; December 16, 2010 at 10:22 PM
Junior said...: love that smile Caleb, Looks like you are having a great time.; December 16, 2010 at 11:16 PM
shirlgirl said...: What sweet pictures of your sweet angel. He's looking like he loved every minute of his PT. Give those big cheeks a kiss for me.; December 18, 2010 at 4:47 PM
Lisa Christine said...: That's one happy little boy!; December 21, 2010 at 10:19 PM
Lovin Lane said...: I came across your blog, and it is just beautiful.... Yo lifted my spirits...; December 22, 2010 at 12:43 PM
Anonymous said...: I bet he's a relaxing child who makes your anxieties ease and your heart melt when you hold him. It gave me a big smile just to see the picture.; December 22, 2010 at 6:53 PM
Becky said...: This makes me teary! His smile is SO big that his precious spirit shines so bright. I LOVE that boy!!!; December 23, 2010 at 5:46 AM
Unknown said...: SO SO Sweet!
:); December 23, 2010 at 9:23 AM
Emily said...: Yay! Is that Mark working with him? Tell him hello!!! We love him.; December 26, 2010 at 7:44 PM

Prayer for Caleb

(written by Caleb's Grandma in her weekly column -2008-)

In my family we have a secret code to communicate our love for each other when we are out in public. We wink. When one of us is about to perform or speak, we look for a family member’s face in the crowd. Then we wink at each other. Closing one eye and winking is our secret code for saying, “I love you. You can do it. You’re wonderful.”

About three years ago, my grandson Caleb was born into our family. He must have known before birth that he would never be able to speak to us because he was born with one eyelid permanently closed. So, he is always “winking” at us, always communicating, “I love you. You can do it. You’re wonderful.”

Caleb has one eye lid permanently closed because he is missing one of his eyes . . . and he is also missing his brain. All the doctors said he would die soon after birth. They were wrong. Caleb is three years old. He is a medical miracle. The doctors say he can’t see, hear, speak, think or move. Those who know and love Caleb understand he has his own unique way of experiencing the world and communicating his love to those around him.

After Caleb was born the hospice people told us to buy a burial plot and continually warned us of his imminent death. We soon learned you can not live well in a state of fear and sadness. We decided we could spend Caleb’s entire life anxious and scared he might die at any moment, or we could celebrate each day we were blessed to have him with us. In the beginning, my daughter April celebrated Caleb’s birthday every week instead of every year with balloons and cupcakes because we simply did not know how long we would have him with us. We stopped the cupcakes after we gained ten pounds, but the celebrating goes on.

We all prayed for a miracle when we first learned about Caleb’s condition. We got one. Caleb’s birth, life and mission have had a deep and lasting impact on our lives. His spirit, eternal identity and most of all the loving, individual relationship he has with each of us is truly a miracle. Because of Caleb we know that each of us has a divine purpose and that the physical body is a sacred gift we should never take for granted. We better understand the worth of a soul and the resiliency of the human spirit.

Caleb’s five year old brother Matthew said, “Grandma. The doctors said Caleb was going to die, but he didn’t. That’s the first miracle I ever saw!”

Sometimes Caleb’s baby brother Mitchell pulls out his feeding tube while they hold hands riding together in their double stroller. Sometimes the only intervention that can get Caleb’s heart rate up is when his older brothers Josh and Matty crawl in his crib, hug him and sing, “I am a Child of God.” ...If you have a moment please offer a prayer for the little boy who has never been able to utter a single word and yet has taught everyone who knows and loves him – all the secrets of a rich and meaningful life.